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P. 10	COUNCILS «SORCERERS« (Continuation) It is necessary to underline, that the child who was born last three days of this or that sign, borrows also some lines of a sign following it, and born in first three days — accordingly, separate lines of the previous sign on the zodiac. The attentive reader has paid, of course, attention and that some psychotypes have much the general among themselves. The matter is that zodiac signs are subdivided in groups into elements and qualities. In total there are four elements — Fire, Air, Water and the Earth; and three qualities (principle) — basic-cardinal, constant-steady and mutabelno-changeable. So all signs on the zodiac are divided into four trigona (triangle) on elements and on three squares on qualities (fig. 5 and 6 see ). Fig. 5. Trigony elements: 1) Fire; 2) the Earth; 3) Air; 4) Water. Fig. 6. Squares of qualities: 1) main / cardinal / signs; 2) constants / fixed/; 3) changeable/mutabelnye/. Accordingly the signs united in these trigony and squares, have much in common among themselves. Charlatans from an astrology confirm, as if the signs united by a triangle are compatible among themselves, and absolutely the signs united by a square, ostensibly, are incompatible. They as if forget, that the triangle symbolises the spiritual beginning, and a square material and their connection — a life birth. In the person strongly display of both beginnings — spiritual and material: the first gives rise to aspiration to the creative impulse, the second gives to this aspiration force and means for display. Besides, the triangle, as well as number 3, in occult tradition symbolises activity and unlimited possibility, and a square, as well as number 4, — restrictions, sufferings, efforts. But it does not mean at all, that the people who were born in a triangle, are happy together, and born in a square, are always unfortunate in home life and drag pity destiny. No, joyful and mournful, happy and suffering are inseparable in the unity. Certainly, signs under which two people were born, define their compatibility or vzaimoottalkivanie, in any measure influence that, the love will be born between them or not, whether they will be happy in marriage, friendship or teamwork, but it is defined not so rectilinearly, not by only one passing on the scheme represented on fig. 5. Here a simple example. Four elements correspond: Fire — to a conscious will of an individual, the active operating beginning; Air — thoughts, to a word, interaction; Water — lives, to feeling and communication; the Earth — to a material, the form, an act. And so, (a sign on the basic square — the cardinal sign) is necessary to the initiator the continuer (a sign on a constant square — the fixed sign) and the reformer (a sign on a changeable square — mutabelnyj a sign). The collective in which there are initiators, continuers and the reformers belonging all four trigonam of elements is viable only. As to three qualities they are connected with revolution of the season. The zodiac sign under which this or that season begins, as though defines the basic quality of the given season. By the tradition, the first standing in the beginning of a season the sign is called as the basic or cardinal. The sign following it on a zodiac circle corresponds to the middle of a season and is called constant or fixed. And the following sign, the third, bears in itself qualities of transition to a following season, a duality, therefore and is called mobile or mutabelnym (changeable). For example, the spring begins under the sign of the Aries, reaches apogee under the sign of a Taurus and passes in mutabelnyj the period under the sign of Twins. Accordingly the accessory on a birth to one of squares of qualities defines also the basic qualities of character of the person about what speech ahead is more detailed. While it is necessary to remind, that signs on a zodiac circle alternate: the Aries — a man's sign, a Taurus — female, Twins — man's, the Cancer — female etc . Man's signs concern trigony Fire and Air, to female — trigony Water and the Earth. It turns out two polar groups on six signs on the zodiac in everyone. Man's signs are inclined to influence world around, are more vigorous, their purposes and a problem lay in the world of social, objective relations. Lines of the leader, in interaction with other signs they are inherent in them, as they say, set the fashion. Female signs are not inclined to change the habitual forms of behaviour. Are more conservative. But they also are more hardy and is internally stronger, ubezhdyonnee. Contrary to man's signs, female private world, but, besides, is more important they and more sensitively react to a condition internal and other person. Their values are more strongly connected with a family, the house, sphere of personal mutual relations. It only some most general characteristic lines which should be noticed and considered at a choice of the person with which you are going to to pass a hand about a hand all life. Now we will talk about prominent features of elements in more details. So: TRIGONY ELEMENTS Elements of fire (the Aries, the Lion and the Sagittarius). In the given psychotypes independence, aspiration to independence, the vigorous activity are appreciable. For them it is important, that there was a full independence — let though small business, but the, and nobody stands up for a back and does not order. At psychotypes of fiery signs the feeling of responsibility is strongly developed. They do not like to study at others, to follow someone an example — prefer to understand in all independently. They aspire to an object in view, but frequently they do not have not enough patience — they aspire to overcome obstacles hurriedly and if it is impossible, can lose interest to the given case. It are sprinters, instead of stayers, they are not able to count-display force on marathon distances, they give all the best already right at the beginning. They not in a condition to think of two affairs-cares simultaneously and if something has carried away them, they forget about all the rest at all. And in it their integrity — they do not like to fork. In relations with other people they do not like to submit, but frequently aspire to take responsibility on itself. Elements of air (Scales, the Aquarius and Twins). At these three signs there is an image of a figure of the person — and not without reason. So traditional representation that the elements of air are environment through which the basic human quality — ability to spiritual dialogue is shown is expressed. And the people concerning psychotypes of air signs, as a rule, are sociable, kontaktny, are sociable. To them are peculiar democratic character (in primary, good sense of this concept), tolerance to another's lacks. For them a little that exclusive, class or any other dividing borders between people mean. They are easily capable to be switched from one business to another and in general to be engaged in simultaneously several affairs. They easily strike up acquaintances, are easy in dialogue, are susceptible to another's cares and problems. At the same time they do not differ a constancy, time is required to all of them novelty of impressions and conditions change. They at all in a condition to do laborious and demanding long efforts job. The same and in private life: long, difficult building of family happiness — not in their nature. Outwardly psychotypes of air signs live happily and carefree. Friendly nature helps them to avoid conflicts, and to them and stresses. Such people will better make a compromise, will concede or in general will depart aside, than will defend the point of view. They in general very easily transfer, unlike many other things signs, failure in private life, in emotional sphere. Their motto: in a life still so a lot of interesting, that it is not necessary to be afflicted with yesterday's failures! Elements of water (the Cancer, the Scorpion and Fishes). Are very sensitive to a sincere condition of other people and more is more thin feel the relation to. At them, that is called, very thin skin. They easily adapt to new circumstances and to unfamiliar conditions, but they are more comfortable than themselves feel, as they say, in native walls. They are shipped in own experiences, and this quality directly depends on their developed imagination. Emotion for water signs it is more important than business, they differ a constancy in the feelings. However ability to unpredictable acts including in personal relations, frequently tightens them in confused and fraught with scandals and even tragedies of a situation. They are dependent often on an environment in which live — it is promoted by their susceptibility. But thus they possess the big mental endurance. Mighty vital force of Water helps them to rise even after the heaviest defeats though they can lose courage because of small insignificant failures and long them then to worry-digest. In business sphere of a life water signs do not differ the big concentration, their working capacity frequently depends on an emotional condition and mutual relations with partners. But they consult even with the job heaviest and unpleasant for them thanking all the same mental endurance. At them the feeling of responsibility is very strongly developed, the persistence of character is inherent in them, therefore even they find a way out of the most hopeless situations. Elements of the earth (the Capricorn, a Taurus and the Maiden). These signs are distinguished by durability, reliability, concreteness, working capacity and other similar qualities allowing them to be by perfect workers in many spheres of human activity. Besides they do not like to be switched and time the begun business necessarily finish. They converge with people slowly and hard, a circle of acquaintances and furthermore friends at them it is very limited. Their isolation proceeds basically because of uncertainty in at the big sensitivity and an emotionality. Terrestrial signs are not inclined to show the feelings for show, but they react to insults water signs are not weaker at all, than, for example. The internal life at "earth dwellers" boils, but associates frequently do not guess it at all. They are hardy and patient, that allows them to transfer many difficulties. If they are adhered to the person, they are capable to excuse it very many, if not all. In the feelings they are constant, but (attention!) changes will not excuse never. Already any oaths, caresses and tears not to force the person of terrestrial elements to forget-excuse a shock from tragedy. SQUARES OF QUALITIES So, elements have prompted us complexes of lines of this or that character. Character of the person is shown first of all in operation. Any action consists of three phases: the beginning (initiative), development (continuation) and transformation (when action in the development becomes obsolete and becomes unpromising). Squares of qualities on a zodiac circle unite psychotypes which are similar in this respect. The psychotypes belonging to one square, especially manage realisation of one of three phases of action or display. We will consider it more particularly. Cardinal square (the Aries, the Cancer, Scales, the Capricorn). These signs prove as initiators, they are vigorous, ambitious, at them the self-respect is very developed. They are active, independent, aspire to reach in any business of tops. Working capacity, ability to overcome an obstacle, strong-willed qualities — here that promotes their professional and office growth. But here their trouble that they too many forces spend at the first stages of a distance, and forces up to the end can not suffice them. An exception — the psychotype of the Capricorn which not only is able to distribute reasonably forces, but also is capable to reserve a stock on last and most important jerk. By the way, all these data directly concern sports — the destiny is simply obliged to favour to the same Capricorn in those kinds of sports where its natural qualities will most rationally fit, for example, in a marathon, in bicycle race, in rowing, etc . Each of main (cardinal) signs entering into a square has as though the colouring, the shade. The psychotype of the Aries infects with enthusiasm and prolagaet a way; the Cancer psychotype gives to action emotional colouring and carefully saves up backs during approach; the psychotype of Scales brings reasonable motivation in action and traces interrelation of all components; the psychotype of the Capricorn acts with the concrete analysis of conditions, not missing any favorable circumstance. Clearly, what is it the most general definitions what are given to psychotypes by astrologists-experts, but, for example, at formation of fighting group, either prospecting party, or a sports command, or a working brigade, etc . It is necessary to be thought-look narrowly to candidates for collective about their accessory to a sign on the zodiac and according to it to charge them a certain site of a common cause. The fixed square (a Taurus, the Lion, the Scorpion, the Aquarius). These are psychotypes of continuers, designers of actions, realizatorov ideas. Operate persistently, methodically, the checked up ways. For them the persistence, endurance, purposefulness, firm will, fidelity to the belief are characteristic. They finish the begun business, always it is possible to rely on them, but thus them and difficultly to convince, that it is necessary to be switched to other, more important and necessary business. They are obstinate, conservative, their outlook is frequently narrow, but thus at them a fountain beats ability, aspiration to creative activity. As well as it is necessary, last sign on the fixed square the Aquarius differs from the general type a little: in him strongly spiritual beginning, conservatism is weakened, not so purposefulness is brightly expressed — it can be distracted from the purpose. In the displays signs on the fixed square, as well as signs cardinal, differ on a tonality: the Lion — the organizer; a Taurus — the worker-sozidatel; the Scorpion — risking type, likes to go on edge and aspires to win race on an abrupt bend; the Aquarius — the intellectual, the figure-innovator. Mutabelnyj a square (Twins, the Maiden, the Sagittarius, Fishes). These are psychotypes of reformers, they are especially necessary there where reorganisation is necessary, reorganisation, revolution. Even under the square name it is visible, that these psychotypes are subject to external influences and in the actions are guided by concrete conditions. Flexibility of mind, an ingenuity are inherent in them. Psychotypes mutabelnogo a square as though smooth extreme measures of the cardinal and fixed squares, acting in a role primiritelej, pacifists. (It is clear, that earlier it was a question of revolution completely not social and bloody!) The completely not casually given square is made by two double signs — Twins, Fishes and unique in the zodiac the combined Sagittarius in which image are connected a human torso to a horse trunk (Centaur). It is reflected brightly in psychotypes mutabelnogo a square; the duality is peculiar to them, they fluctuate often in a direction choice. And more they get down to business often not on forces, promise to execute impracticable, to reach the unattainable and believe thus, that can achieve the promised. It is impossible to rely on them and especially in an important issue. If over them skilfully not to supervise, they are capable to float at will of waves. In critical situations they become languid, dozing, hoping not on the forces and energy, and at random. The tonality in the square at mutabelnyh signs is that: Twins prove in the intellectual party of action, aspire to co-ordinate it to other actions; the Maiden carefully analyzes action before it to begin, gives great value to business details; the Sagittarius joins in business hazardously, necessarily having brought under it theoretical base; Fishes actively acquire the theory in the course of action, try various directions of action and aspire to the optimum decision always and in everything, — their principle: that both wolves were full, and sheep are whole. * * * Well here, when our knowledge of an astrology without a deceit have even more extended, it is a high time to pass to very important theme — planning of family happiness in the light of the zodiac sky. Generally in home life at us the separate section will be devoted a harmony problem, but we will begin this difficult theme already now to finish an astrology. So, before to show to the bride (groom) or the wife (husband) any requirements and claims, whether it is better at first to try to understand its character better? For this purpose I will result here still the additional information on psychotypes of already adult people depending on a zodiac sign. So astrologists confirm? And they assert, that each person already from a birth is allocated by certain character traits which in the course of time can develop and get stronger, and can and stushevatsja-be softened, if they are, of course, undesirable. With any even the most difficult and uncontrollable person can be found, as they say, common language if slightly to be arranged under its difficult character was able and neobidno for itself. It is thought, for the sake of achievement in a world and happiness family over it it is necessary to work. Well, and it is easier to cultivate good lines in the darling (elect) and to extinguish-neutralise bad if (its) its character in advance has understood. Here some helps: The ARIES. With it it is necessary to be ready more to give, than to take. It is necessary to play on its vanity and to hold it in pleasant confidence, what is it it fills with all. Remember that the Aries is easily irritated, runs into anger, but it only short flashes — it is necessary to wait easy eruption of emotions as it calms down and becomes absolutely manual "lamb". TAURUS. Do not try to force to change it the decision which it has already accepted — only will waste time also nerves. It is necessary imperceptibly, but it is persevering, from apart and is given reason to inspire it the point of view on a question at issue while it will not get used to it. This way if it will be possible to convince him is especially effective, that your idea is its idea. In no event it is impossible to deride a Taurus, to sneer at its weaknesses and lacks — in insult it it is capable of extreme measures, without respect of persons, circumstances and not thinking about consequences. In mutual relations with it — only patience, patience and more time patience. Much can be reached, appealing to its feelings — it is rather goodhearted and even is sentimental. Caress and softness from a Taurus it is possible to achieve all and even the impossible. TWINS. At this psychotype character usually not a gift. It is impatient, likes to interfere with another's affairs, too to be interested in another's problems. But if you try to reproach him with importunity — it is capable of very malicious reciprocal actions. Is better in dialogue with Twins to accept spirit of ease and irony, a cheerful jocosity which to it to liking and always relieve the tension. And more remember, that compulsion — not the strongest line of this psychotype, therefore to it be ready and do not waste time on reproaches and useless reproaches. Help it to realise the idea stated to it is better, help tactfully and, quite probably, there is no need it to be obligatory in everyone concrete sluchaet. CANCER. With it it is necessary to be rather delicate for the Cancer is almost always sensitive and excessively vulnerable. It gives huge value to trifles, therefore he with gratitude perceives all slightest signs on attention of you, but also will easily take offence, if you do not notice such signs from its party and poorly thank. This psychotype it is insatiable demands participation, heat, care and if all it it to surround-wrap up — its love to you it will be boundless. (Just in case I will make the note in brackets: at us almost all time masculine gender pronouns for it is a question of a zodiac sign, psychotype are used, and the majority of names of signs have a masculine gender, but it does not mean at all, that it is a question only of representatives of a strong half of mankind — remember it.) LION. About, this «the tsar of animals» would like to operate all and individually. Authoritativeness — the fad of the Lion. But, as a rule, it is capable and located only to general plan instructions, and all details in your hands. So all do how consider it necessary, but do not forget to underline to the Lion, what is it it has opened to you a way true. This psychotype at all does not take out criticism, therefore and to achieve from it that you wish, it is possible only extolling it, underlining all its pluses then it is ready to be turned for the sake of you inside out. And very important prevention-council: do not take in head never and under any conditions to touch self-respect of the Lion and especially — save you the Lord! — at strangers. Family idyll the end can come. The MAIDEN. As it more often the workaholic, he never will understand reproaches of type: you have absolutely disappeared at job and have forgotten about the house! Maidens miss on rest, it is difficult to them to please with entertainments, therefore they frequently look for us, ordinary people, bores. It is not necessary to reproach the Maiden for excessive diligence, it is useless, and at times and it is dangerous, for for it alternatives will not be in a choice between job for a family and job without a family — always only job. So adapt and remember, that there is nothing impossible on light, and eventually you learn your workaholic to enjoy and joint rest. SCALES. This character itself aspires to harmony so relatives need to accompany the Scales only. This psychotype has more often thin taste, is sensitive to beauty and does not take out vulgarity. With it it is necessary to be cautious in promises — idle talks and they hate empty talks, yes thus never will be ashamed to convict the deceiver of word infringement publicly. Also do not take in head to encroach on their feeling of justice — they are in that case capable of fit of anger. Remember, Scales can be pacified beauty of manner, beautiful culture in dialogue. SCORPION. He/she is very proud and retentive person on insults, so — a care maximum in relations with it. Besides it is necessary to remember, that any problem is easier for solving not insults and humiliations of self-respect, and — caress and frankness. The scorpion is outwardly passionless, but under this affected crape nature ardent and sensitive disappears frequently. It very much requires the confidential relation, likes, when with it admire and is ready on any feats to prove the importance. If you behave in relations with it tactfully, softly, tenderly, at times and to flatter is thin («About, only you can make it!») — that harmony in your relations is provided. The SAGITTARIUS. At it, as a rule, the good mood, therefore with it is always easy. However the Sagittarius very much is afraid to become a laughing-stock and is capable to begin to hate the one who will expose it in ridiculous light. It is not necessary and maintain its magnanimity, it, having noticed it, will react inadequately. In a word, the approach to the Sagittarius demands a maximum a step and mind. Try to concern it is underlined validly to its opinion and achieve it from other relatives and not so people. The CAPRICORN. It is very friendly, but also in the answer demands from all friendship and love. Very painfully concerns the reputation and among all qualities especially values nobleness. In dispute it is extremely obstinate, but it is not necessary to blame it for it — if it accepts your help, it will return a hundredfold for it. At the Capricorn it is a lot of high qualities so presence separate bad always it is possible to excuse and close on them eyes. The AQUARIUS. It is character rebellious, wilful, he the fighter for freedom, hates any interdictions. Atmosphere of freedom to it is necessary for creating … at least in words. If you do not agree with it, keep silent is better. If your Aquarius has taken in head to reorganise something in the house on own understanding, do not hurry up to speak «is not present!» — it is quite probable, that he has thought up and will make something worthy approval. But remember, diplomatnichat with it follows very cautiously for it is sensitive to falseness and does not excuse her. FISHES. Are very sensitive, magnanimous — like and are able to sympathise. To the critic, even most the slightest and soft, perceive painfully. Are Even more vulnerable in relation to deceits as "suffer" excessive sincerity. Very much, very much and very much appreciate respect for them — be not lazy constantly it to underline. So it is simple, and harmony of everyday home life and is based on such here simple trifles! * * * The polarity principle consists in interaction of two beginnings — active and passive. To us this principle is very important in conversation on compatibility of two characters in the marriage union or strong friendship. It is necessary to remember, that the active beginning though is considered "man's", and passive "female" is by no means it means, that the husband always and in all is active, and the wife is always passive. A joint life (and in general a life!) consists of many spheres-areas: in any of them IT can be the leader, in any (remained) IT — to it and is reached harmony. As we already know, in an astrology all signs on the zodiac are subdivided on two groups — man's and female. Each planet passing on a circle of the zodiac, gets consistently from a man's sign in female, and then again to the man's. Hence, each of planets twelve times in a year changes the polarity, and consequently — activity and influence for the person … However, breaking the promise, I have started to go deep into an astrological jungle, which nobility completely not necessarily. It is enough to acquire, that there are accords and discords in mutual relations of signs, both these accords and discords rather depend on to what trigonu (Fire, Air, Water or the Earth) belongs a zodiac sign on the person. Here further also the short register of compatibility between the man and the woman in marriage depending on trigona will be resulted. (Fig. 5 both the head about elements and qualities See .) Fire (IT) — Fire (IT). In this combination rough strong communication — both emotional, and sexual — arises right at the beginning, but subsequently the union breaks up often. The reason that the fiery psychotype does not like to adapt to external circumstances, prefers them to alter. If it is not possible, it leaves in itself(himself), becomes isolated, cultivates in a shower "grumbling" mood. No wonder, that when two Fires converge, between them continually there are conflicts because of trifles, and the obstinacy and vanity of everyone at all do not promote situation smoothing. The most intense mutual relations, as a rule, are characteristic for the unions of identical signs trigona Fire: the Aries — the Aries, the Lion — the Lion, the Sagittarius — the Sagittarius. If the destiny has reduced together, let us assume, two Lvov in such union is better to divide fields of activity, to try not to suppress will and independence each other, to respect «another's borders». It is very important to develop external ritual forms of mutual relations: if, for example, the half-joking reference to each other on "you" helps to relieve the tension, why it not to use constantly. In such union and it is very important to communicate more often — together to go to theatre, cinema, to arrange sorties on the nature. But thus to try not to interfere with business sphere each other, not to try to give command advice. Most often conflicts in any family, as is known, arise because of education of children. In case of a "fiery" family is better in advance, till a birth of children, to discuss this question as it is possible more carefully and to develop vzaimoustraivaemye principles of parental behaviour. Fire (IT) — Air (IT). Here there are all conditions-data for creation of an amicable happy family. These elements mutually supplement each other and if, for example, the spouse fine consults with washing and cleaning the man in the house frequently willingly incurs, let us assume, cooking of food and campaigns on shops. And pleasant affairs-cares and to divide it is not necessary. Problem in such marriage is weak emotional communication between spouses. The matter is that fire and Air — elements independent, independent so in the course of time there can come alienation, and even full cooling. The husband should remember, that the psychotype of his wife demands special attention so duration of the union, its durability will depend on the husband first of all and. Believe, your affairs, so to say, industrial interests anywhere will not get to, and here special attention to family affairs will help to save this most family happiness. Eugene, in turn, should to forget, that Fire psychotype is predisposed to jealousy, so it is not necessary to give for this purpose occasions and furthermore to provoke (ostensibly for maintenance of strong feeling of love) the blagovernogo to jealousy flashes. And more such nuance: if the wife the Aquarius home life will be strained for a strong-willed pressure of the Aquarius tjazhelovato to take out to fiery signs and especially to the Lion and the Aries. Fire (IT) — Water (IT). Alas, this combination — not from the best, home life is fraught with conflicts, despite strong emotional communication and stability of a combination. There can be strained and nervous a communication the Aries — the Scorpion. The husband should be reserved by endurance, it is less to pay attention to small whims of the wife, it is better to concern it with humour. But if its whims become too frequent and intolerable, it is necessary to look narrowly — can, you give to the wife of attention, care, caress a little, because it and is nervous. In turn, it is necessary for Eugene to develop in itself(himself) feeling of tactfulness and diplomacy for Fire it and is fire — from it it is possible to achieve much that, only it is impossible to pass reasonable limits. Fire (IT) — the Earth (IT). Rather strong and good combination and especially under a condition, if to both spouses already for thirty. Usually the wife possesses logic mentality, equal character and in the requirements is concrete and reasonable, so it is easy to "fiery" husband to carry out them. The aspiration of Fire to protection easily finds the embodiment (under a condition, of course, if he earns more spouses!), but the husband should remember, that the Earth not very much likes frequent cavils, reproaches, reproaches and in general the quarrelsome relation to so the patronising behaviour should not be outgrown-be transformed in behaviour dictatorial. Air (IT) — Fire (IT). As a rule, at the man-air each passer — the friend and the friend so the wife should be ready to it and to try to prove the hospitable mistress in relation to uncountable acquaintances of the husband. The spouse in such combination should see to it about that because of friends not to forget and about the wife — to give to it of more attention, to enter into a circle of the acquaintances. For psychotype of the wife it is not required too strong display of external attention, but it is very important, that the husband was nearby. And more: to such married couple very much polzitelno for intrafamily relations to be in public more often, to get out on a visit. Air (IT) — Air (IT). The combination very good, but does not suffice the union strong emotional communication. Clearly, that is necessary to be more often for the sake of strengthening of this communication together, to be engaged in joint activity, to divide both pleasures, and cares half-and-half. It is necessary to remember it especially during the period when the delightful honeymoon comes to an end and some comes ohlazhdyonnost feelings for otherwise the family will break up to two isolated worlds, each of spouses will live in itself. It is very good, if both spouses work together and have the general interests resulting from equal level of culture. In this marriage there can be big complications because of relatives from both parties — in no event it is impossible to allow for them to interfere with your intrafamily affairs. It is and more very important, that in the house such pair at each of spouses had a corner (an office, a boudoir) where it could retire. If neither the office, nor a boudoir in apartment is not present (that more often and happens) it is necessary to be accustomed to circumstances: if, for example, the wife has chosen to itself a place under a floor lamp to tie under the Mexican teleserial the spouse in this hour can esteem with pleasure the book on kitchen under strong seagulls. And as it will be good after that hour of separation to converge together and to be talked-communicate — the wife will tell, that there the newcomer in Mexico happens, and the spouse who have become bored on kitchen in breaks between kisses with great feeling will retell to it a detective any Aleksandry Marininoj … Air (IT) — Water (IT). As a whole a steady combination. Pressure in such union arises on sexual soil more often, frankness between spouses therefore is very important, and also follows even before marriage and in the marriage to address to the sexologist more often. The husband should remember, that its spouse on character the person rather jealous, and it is jealous not only of women, but also to friends, and to relatives of the husband, wishing that it belonged only to it and the house. But also the wife should remember and consider, that its Air transfers jealousy badly so sometimes it is better to hide the emotions and suspicions for the sake of the world and well-being in a family. Also it is necessary for Eugene to show a tactfulness maximum in relation to relatives of the husband, and also to try not to overload nervous system of the husband, not to strain it as at Air very low limit of emotional endurance, and it is quite capable to offer love and to find to itself(himself) quieter world for a life. Air (IT) — the Earth (IT). Here any more or less serious complexities can arise in steams the Aquarius — the Capricorn and Twins — a Taurus. And in general in a combination Air — the Earth stability of marriage depends first of all on the husband. The emotional affinity becomes stronger gradually and in the course of time the union prochneet. But for this reason it is very important to save a family and emotional affinity in the first years of a matrimonial life. The "terrestrial" psychotype lives an intense internal life so for "air" psychotype (husband) it is notable loading. To it it will be easier also will be more confident to feel, if is the supporter true — to provide a family financially. Water (IT) — Fire (IT). In such union the wife is the leader more often, and the husband it is easy with it is reconciled more often. But Perish the thought the wife to pass certain sides — the husband will roughly react, is rigid and inadequate (from the point of view of the wife, certainly!). Marriage such happens very happy and long under a condition if the wife is clever and possesses diplomatic gift: to be in the lead and order to a certain limit and not to forget to be interested in words at least in opinion of the husband and its affairs-cares. Water (IT) — Air (IT). "Water" psychotype (husband) it is very thin feels the relation to and painfully perceives signs of an inattention, cooling, neglect and, as a rule, gipertroficheski these signs exaggerates. Yes, it is captious, yes, it is jealous, yes, he demands a lot of attention from the wife only to the person, but … But it and itself without the rest gives itself(himself) to the wife, a family, the house, he even is ready to like all relatives of the wife (that meets seldom enough) and worries about its affairs more than for the. So, this union in the psychological plan is combined enough, but many sharp corners will be smoothed, if the husband to learn to constrain the emotions and not begins to overload the wife with the requirements and insults of an inattention, and the wife not begins to underline too the independence and too will sympathise more often with the husband. In such family children and as much as possible — they just are simply necessary and will bring harmony in mutual relations of parents. Water (IT) — Water (IT). Though such union difficult emotional atmosphere, but nevertheless it also generates enough prochen. Both related psychotypes are sensitive to inwardness each other, at them, as a rule, the mood is identical even if they are on distance and do not see one another. The first period of marriage at Water with Water always prochen, intensity arises usually for the third and seventh years. The second crisis is heaviest and often comes to an end, alas, with divorce. In general in such union conflicts are inevitable and they carry long though and frequently latent character. Here it is possible to advise one: it is better to learn each other before marriage. As a rule, Water saves habits and a way of life, taken out of the parental house — so at a stage "zhenihovstva" absolutely easy, often be in houses each other, both to the groom, and the bride to get accustomed to way of families more steadfastly. If preliminary supervision and the conclusions have not warned young destinies against connection — it is necessary to be accustomed, get used, in common to build the House. And for this purpose in this house it is better not to become isolated, more often to happen in public, and remaining alone not to conceal insult in itself, to avoid long finding-out of relations, to be with each other more frank and kinder. And how important not to involve in the quarrels of children, not to move their everyone on the party, exposing for this purpose opposite (from a word "opponent") the party in the most unprofitable light. Astrologists assert, that if the union of Water with Water will safely go through crises of the third, the seventh and thirteenth (fourteenth), it becomes strong and quite happy. Water (IT) — the Earth (IT). A combination very difficult: the "water" psychotype usually sharply worries disconnexion and weak display of emotions of the Earth. If spouses from first days start to adapt wisely to features each other, they will create happy and strong pair. In such marriage household complexities play not enough role, but here in sphere sexual complexities happens enough. The jealousy, not excused insults — can become everyday "pleasures" of home life. On mutual relations of spouses the monotony of the life, the closed existing in a house world especially adversely operates. It is fraught with accident most strongly in the union of Water with the Earth if they have no children. The husband should not forget, that the psychotype of the Earth is internally very emotional, despite external impassivity. After the next quarrel the "water" psychotype is restored rather quickly, the Earth very long worries the conflict, suffers. And the wife should be more frank in display of feelings even insults and more easy to concern rough displays of emotions from the husband. The Earth (IT) — Fire (IT). In such union the big complexities arise in bed. It is not necessary to be afraid and hesitate to discuss frankly all arising complexities, to hang together and aspire to harmonisation of sexual relations. The husband "terrestrial" very much likes an order in the house, stability of a way of life. He also at times aspires to a solitude, for it its own corner in the house is very important, the territory where to the spouse without special need it is better, simply speaking not to be put. The husband also will be grateful to the wife if it does not pull it on trifles, does not tear off it constantly from its important (let even if only he so thinks!) affairs. In a sign on gratitude the husband will answer the same and will not suppress aspiration of the wife to certain independence, not begins to delimit its interests. The Earth (IT) — Air (IT). An appeal to the husband: it is more than attention to the wife, show emotions more often, underline love to it! The spouse in such union will easily excuse and will understand inability of the husband to earn the big money, but seriously will take offence, if he does not notice a new hairdress at it or will forget to congratulate her on a name day. "Air" mistresses, as a rule, in the house like to solve all and do not like, if the husband interferes with economic cares, tries to order in the house. In such marriage children are capable to smooth many sharp corners. The Earth (IT) — Water (IT). Crises during the first period are inevitable, but if them to overcome, the strong union, getting stronger year from a year is formed. Intense steams can be the Capricorn — the Scorpion and a Taurus — the Scorpion. The husband ordinary provides a material prosperity and very much likes, when the wife constantly is interested in its affairs-cares, supports its participation and councils. Thus she should create to it as much as possible quiet conditions for its basic business and not finger it on trifles. The "terrestrial" psychotype very much appreciates it, and its working capacity — and without that big — becomes even more productive. And in general, this union keeps in many respects on the woman — it is much more mentally steady and possesses bolshej psychological flexibility. It should remember, that got to it in husbands the "terrestrial" man will easier go on emotional contact if it shows a patience and softness maximum. It is absolutely inadmissible from its party in extreme cases to threaten with leaving, divorce and other terrible things — to it it only will aggravate a situation. The Earth (IT) — the Earth (IT). It will be better, if the guy and the girl in this case with marriage especially to hurry up not begin, and will try to learn better before wedding each other. The psychotype of the Earth slowly adapts to new conditions, not in a condition cardinally to change the habits, therefore will be simply remarkable, if habits and interests of everyone do not contradict habits and interests of the elect. Conflicts because of a difference of sights even on a trifle can become long and even chronic. Therefore it is necessary to repeat once again: better before marriage to reveal-define tastes each other and to try to harmonise them. The main thing — not to hurry each other. * * * Ridiculously to think, as if someone will dare to suspend relations with the liked person only on the ground that horoscopes at them do not coincide. And even horoscopes not only most the general, resulted here, but also strictly individual astrologies made in any academy with the account of your hour of a birth and horoscopes of all your relatives up to the seventh knee, — even only unless will prompt such horoscopes to you, in what direction you should correct slightly the character to achieve happy and quiet home life. Popular wisdom says: of love of harm — you will grow fond also a goat. I will add, that love — one of most zagadochnejshih and many-sided human feelings. The love is a feeling which from the beginning and up to the end consists of poles and contradictions. Here about some strangenesses of love we also will talk in following section of our book. (THE FRAGMENT END) <<<(P. 9)
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